Mother and grandfather are forcing me to try and go to college I don’t want too.

Tittle says it all. Do not want me to go too this college because they clam it’s too dangerous and not the best education. I’m scared to just say something and they’ll threaten too not pay for my education but I really don’t wanna go to this college and I’m tired of their constant helicoptering and gaslighting me. I used to live in the big city near alot of people which was a dream as an extrovert too me but the they moved me to this horrible small City. What should I say tho honestly to them about not wanting to go to this college/university I really do need some help and advice