Massage frequently asked questions

What type of massage oils and lotions do you use?

Rice bran, coconut, and sunflower oils (nut free). Aloe and arnica lotion on arms and legs.

What's the spa option?

Arranging a private room in a spa is sometimes possible but creates restrictions such as a specific start and stop time. Yet it might be a reasonable trade-off if you're not comfortable receiving a massage in my home or hosting yourself.

Do you expect reciprocation?

No, this is an experience completely focused on you. If your thoughts and desires turn towards wanting to connect with me or touch me that's OK, but consider if you're caught in old patterns of feeling selfish receiving pleasure and planning your next move.

Are you an axe murderer?

No, you might have watched too many episodes of Dexter. We can meet in public and discuss the possibility of a massage before deciding to make it happen. A few women I've massaged have left comments on my previous posts offering to be references to future women uncertain about meeting up.

Have you met people from Reddit in the past?

Yes! I have had enough good encounters to be hopeful about receiving future chat requests that lead to new experiences.

I'm nervous, can we meet in public beforehand?

Yes, creating an environment of comfort is essential to a good massage experience. We can talk in person about what you might like to experience and answer any questions you haven't already asked over chat. A massage experience could immediately follow, if you're up for it.