42 [M4F] #NJ #Morris County - Intellect and ambition for beauty

No, I’m not hideous, but I am covered in fur and some may call my behavior behind closed doors beast-like. Let’s both be real for a moment. There are things we both want in a partner which others might say are shallow or old fashioned. But we own that. The question is what are we going to do about it?

You crave an ambitious, intelligent man. You may even have been called a gold digger but you’re really just misunderstood. Being dirt poor with the right man is better than being comfortable with the wrong one. I crave a woman who works as hard on her appearance as I work on my mind and career. I take care of myself but if my body looked like my mind it would be in underwear ads. Where should yours be?

An unusual combination? Sure. But that’s what we’re here for isn’t it? And this doesn’t mean that the other things don’t matter. Compassion, emotional intelligence, respect…especially respect. We’re still here for some kind of relationship. I’m open to something short term with the possibility of long term. I am emotionally available and have done the work.

I’m also very kink friendly (including BDSM) but I’m fine keeping it spicy vanilla.

I’m built like a bear, hairy, masculine, with a trimmed salt and pepper beard. Divorced and ENM with a proven vasectomy. Personality wise I’m rational, passionate, and driven. An entrepreneur. Sarcasm is my native language and “Dark Dad” describes my sense of humor. Oh and I prefer to be outspoken and blunt. So if you think you’d be too much for me, try me.

\~A