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maroon_bug

How do Germans approach dating non-German women of colour?

Culture

I'm F27, bisexual, recently shifted here, and trying to explore the dating scene here. But I have been a bit skeptical about being perceived as not the best option because of my skin colour, and very different cultural background and lifestyle.

For context, I have lived my entire life in my home country (India). We have very different social and cultural norms there (but I'm very open to adapting to the German norms as long as it doesn't involve anything overly uncomfortable). Besides, I'm worried that there are certain prejudices against Indians here, and that it would also reflect on how I'm perceived as a potential partner. I do however believe that I'm an interesting and empathetic person, and can be good company for others if nothing more.

Perhaps I'm thinking too much, or just being scared because everything is new and different. But having a general idea about how Indian women are perceived by Germans (or Europeans) for serious dating or marriage would be nice. Thoughts please?

Posted Feb 21, 2026, 5:33 PM UTC

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