43 [M4F] #EST #PA Life is full of possibilities. You just need to know where to look

I hope everyone is having a good weekend. I've been on here long enough to know that we all use those same buzzwords in our posts to make us stand out. Like chemistry, spark, soulmate, companionship, intellectual connection, partnership. We're on here because we're missing something in our relationships or we just like the attention we receive from someone that makes us feel special, valued, seen, and desired.

What I can offer you: I want to be your safe space, someone who won't judge you, someone who will say good morning and good night to you. I want to know about your day, good and bad. To offer comfort and support when needed. To encourage you and celebrate your accomplishments. To make you feel seen and valued on multiple levels. Daily and consistent communication with no ghosting. And to send you romantic and silly gifs and maybe corny poetry if we get closer. And obviously not looking to change either of our situations.

About me: I'm 43, married for 16 years, girl dad of two. Physically I'm 6'0, brown hair and eyes, semi fit dadbod and working on it. I'm broad across the shoulders and chest (been told it's one of my nicer features). Interests include reading, cooking, sports, going to museums, traveling, and classic rock. I'm usually shy and quiet in person. Maybe a bit introverted.

About you: Over 30, intelligent, funny, you have a great personality and the energy you bring is addictive. Physically everything else is secondary. You've done this before and maybe you've been hurt but deep down you're still a hopeless romantic and know that your person is out there.

I'm not looking for a short term fling of the week or a conversation that lasts a day but something that grows naturally as we talk. I want someone who is as excited to be with me as I am with her. Maybe a little obsessed (in the good way). Thank you for reading this and if something you read made you smile or roll your eyes (also in the good way) we may be a match and I hope you'll reach out.