Do this to make her obsessed about you
Last week a girl told me..you are a jerk, but I have no clue why I'm obeying you.
Haha… I do.
I've been practicing pickup for 7 years now as a full time thing. And man I've tried all the methods in the books. Really, you just name it, I might've been there :p It even went to NLP and hypnosis.
After soooo many approaches and pulls for 7+ years, I finally found how to trigger that feeling of an obsession and crush in her mind. or pretty much she can't get you out of her mind. No matter what she does, your thoughts will keep popping up.
I've tried this in plenty of scenarios like
-random girl on the street or in a supermarket
-conservative and religious girls
-girls who hated love and relationships
- Haha, even an HR girl who called to recruit me
I've even shared this in my close circle of friends and it also gave them excellent results.
That's why i decided to share it.
Before you ask what the magic phrase is, let me tell you -> It doesn't exist.
Our focus is not about what I should tell her. It's more about how I can make her feel certain emotions & direct some of those emotions towards me.
Some of those emotions are surprise, jealousy, curiosity, care, pain (YES), pleasure, anticipation, excitement, and some more.
So, this is not just about the words you speak, but obviously it matters.
Now I’m thinking of writing a short guidebook about this, compiling all my learnings about creating that obsession in her mind and how to make her comply with whatever you say.
I've completed the first 5 pages… DM me and I'll share it with you. If people find it valuable, I'll complete the whole guide.
Posted Feb 21, 2026, 5:37 PM UTC