Hi I need an advice from guys that are dating in their 30s
I’m a mid-20s F talking to a guy in his 30s. We’ve been chatting for about a month and we’ve already met in person. We’re from different provinces and met in Manila.
He’s a lawyer, pretty busy, and active at the gym. After we met up, our communication slowed down a lot. He barely replies now, so I’m honestly not sure if everything went well. When he does reply, the messages are still polite and substantial (like wishing me a good day).
I’m not the type to be clingy or double-text, especially since I noticed when we were together that he rarely uses his phone. I understand that he’s busy, but I won’t lie I do like him and I genuinely want to get to know him more.
At this point, I’m unsure if I should keep giving this a chance or just walk away and accept that this is all it’s going to be.
Posted Feb 22, 2026, 4:55 PM UTC