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Familiar-Clerk-77

34 [M4F] #India/Anywhere - Queer, Progressive, Unconventional guy looking for a friend and a partner for life

Male for Female
  • Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ( not poly but have been file with non monogamy if it's done together ) ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself
  • Professional & Personal:
    • Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
    • Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
    • An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
    • Proud plant parent.
  • What Ignites My Curiosity:
    • The intersection of chaos and order.
    • Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
    • Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
    • Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.
  • Seeking a Partner Who:
    • Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
    • Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
    • Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
    • Navigates cyclic non-monogamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
    • Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.
  • Green Flags:
    • A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
    • Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.

Posted Feb 22, 2026, 4:57 PM UTC

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