Sober dating with 2 years sober

Sober dating with 2 years sober

I'm interested in what others experiences have been being queer and sober in NYC and dating. I am struggling to find other sober/sober friendly men.im 32 years old and I just hit 2 years sober this past Friday 2/20 and I'm ready to find someone to share my time with but I am not having much luck. Last Friday I went to a sober Valentine's mixer and there were no gays there, this was after I had asked the person who was in charge of the party if there would be, she said yes, and apparently I was the only one who showed, it was so uncomfortable and embarrassing as you can imagine 😆. Anyways any pointers or stories of your own experience would be appreciated.