Why is everyone always fucking late?

any time I make plans with anyone to either hangout or tutor them (for free) they're late. sometimes 5 minutes, sometimes 30 minutes, sometimes I message when I arrive and they haven't left yet. The majority of the time it takes me longer to get there than them. Other times they're late and say they have to get coffee first.

I've wasted days of my life waiting for these fucking people. I'm about to start leaving after 1 minute of waiting cause this is just fucking ridiculous.

I'm sick of kindness and patience being a fucking weakness that's exploited.