Caught my bf (23M) jerkin off to me (21F) on FaceTime…advice?

So… I noticed the camera shaking so i suspected it and the when he suddenly needed to go to the bathroom I could tell what he’d done. we have been together for 4 months now and long distance for 1 and I know we both have a high sex drive but really….without saying anything to me. I had just woken up and was in a sports bra and joggers so even if that had turned him on…I understand we’ve been apart for a long time but I’d hope he’d at least ask me for consent or say something and not s just start jerkin in front of me. I wonder if anyone else has any advice or opinion on this? maybe some advice on how to bring it up in conversation or if this is red flag etc? Thanks

Posted Feb 22, 2026, 5:01 PM UTC

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