Chronic conflict

Every interaction ends in a conflict. Husband is very reactive and I have cPTSD now. He continues to tell me we need to work on the relationship after 6 failed couples therapists and continued abuse. He will not let me leave with my kids and he won’t leave. He continues to tell me I am destroying my family. I can’t talk to a lawyer for over a week. How do I survive when he won’t leave me alone, won’t respect boundaries, continues to tell me we need to connect and work on our relationship while I don’t feel safe with him? Interactive told me I can get arrested for leaving with my kids.