Please stop the silent treatment

Please communicate, I know you have too much to address us now but please acknowledge where we are, what you need, how I can help, when you're ready to talk about what we both need from the friendship.

I know you like things unspecified but this can create one sided dynamics of power control and support. Both of us need boundaries but if nobody talks or they are one sided, and I get the silent treatment for loving you and not asking is this fair, for both of us? What needs fixing in a workable way, its just so painful. I don't understand and I'm hurting to the point I can't function.

I can be patient.

I can accept it for now, I'm here for you.