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BrofistingMinion

My girlfriend has broken up with me because of my overreliance on Artificial Intelligence

I (M20) am heartbroken after my girlfriend (F19) broke up with me after we had a discussion on my constant usage of AI tools. I really have no idea what to do because we had talked about my usage of AI before but then the other day she wanted to know about it in more detail so I talked to her in depth about my usage of AI tools. Safe to say this was a massive mistake and i've come to deeply regret it. Turns out that having an overreliance on artificial intelligence for most of your daily or non-daily tasks is not attractive to women at all. My use of AI is purely constructive and productive. I made it clear that I do not use it for sexual or mental pleasure, this however only made her trust me even less because she asked to go through my history with grok but I refused because I said that there were personal issues and details in some of my chats. She thinks that I am not reliable and able to do what I might eventually need to do later in our relationship, such as taking care of our children. I'm in a tough spot right now because I need AI to run my business of dropshipping bibles to certain midwestern christian communities. We really never had any problems before this but I feel like i've really fucked up here.

Posted Feb 23, 2026, 6:03 AM UTC

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