Advice

Hi there,

I have a question about how to go about repairing all the relationships my mother has ruined by lying and slandering me on her drama-rants while getting herself pity. Is it worth it or is everyone poisoned against me for good. Like my little brother, what am I supposed to say to him. He believes all my Mom's bullshit. Friends that my Mom promises she doesn't talk to, she talks to and tells them all kinds of hateful hurtful things about me. Because she's cruel and the cruelty only seems to land on me. My siblings are all babied, except maybe my older sibling. Now if I go and tell these people; "My mother is abusive" they'll just think whatever my mother was saying must be true since that would sound hateful. But sometimes mothers are actually toxic and abusive. So all these people that have been poisoned, is there really a point in correcting them and trying to stand up for myself or honestly do I just throw the shoes out..( the expression sometimes the shoes are so dirty it's easier to just throw them out). I grieve the loss of most of my family and friends due to my mother's selfish, narcissitic cruel hateful insanity. I've already greived their loss.. So what's the point if they won't believe me anyway.