Bridesmaid/men Photos

I am looking to have one bridesman in my wedding party (i’m marrying a woman so he can’t get ready or do photos with the groomsmen). Everytime I see photos of bridesmaids it’s hard to see a bridesman without him sticking out like a sore thumb, I also have a hard time imagining him being involved in such a photoshoot as he’s not a huge photo person to begin with. Is it rude to have him the the first few photos and then kick him out? What did any of you do in this situation?