How much has losing your virginity affected your confidence?

To those who have lost their virginity, how has it affected your confidence? I’m coming up on being a 25 yr old virgin and I feel like it’s really affecting my confidence, but if I bring it up to any of my friends I’m sure they’ll just tell me it’s not that serious and I shouldn’t worry about it that much, which like I understand but also they all lost their virginity at a way younger age so I don’t think they’ll be able to understand how I feel. They all have a ton of experience and I get alittle insecure when they talk about it with each other and I can’t relate in any way. I guess is this something I should be putting my time and effort towards or should I just drop it and hope it comes up in the future at the right point? Idk, I feel like if I do it then there will be this weight off my chest