AITAH fiance threw away all of my shaving stuff?

i was gonna shave my legs today, my dad bought me some stuff for it the other day and i haven’t shaved my legs in a long time. my fiance tells me i don’t need to shave at all and it’s natural and men don’t shave so why should women have to.

i was looking for my shaving stuff and couldn’t find them and my fiance denied knowing where they were, but eventually admitted to throwing them away.

i also have a $50 spa gift card and i’m a bit frustrated because i want a massage for my neck pain but he says i can only get one if it’s an old lady, not a young man or woman, which i don’t understand.

AITAH if i book a massage anyway and is he doing me a favor with the shaver/trying to instill confidence in me?