HL M36 Latino

Ive been in my relationship for 9 years. It started great random sex at random places. But after having our son she has given up. She does not dress provocatively at all using old bras and granny panties. She has a great set of breast but hides them away. All she does is work and come home makes minimal effort to make dinner and then just lays in the couch and complains about something hurting or that shes tired. Thats literally the two things she does during the day. Then if we do have sex it mediocre no oral, foreplay or flirty touches. She lays there barely moans and its only missionary or her on too which last about 5 minutes and shes too tired. Then its rinse and repeat to the next day.

My day i get up at 5am M-F to go to the gym get back by 7am to shower and get ready for work then i make sure my som gets up and east breakfast and gets ready for school. I also walk the dog. Then during my lunch i come home and walk the dog and mae myself lunch and clean the house a bit or the dishes. I get off at 5:30pm and as soon asn im home its all playtime with my son hntil like 8pm when I shower him and get him ready for work. I dont drink but if i get on my Xbox to unwind i get so much shit. I cant olay golf ok the weekend or even go have a beer with friends without being gaslit even though i soent all day with her and my son.

Im like wtf am i doing wrong!!!!