AIO

I feel like things are going downhill for my bf and I. I really don’t know if I’m overreacting. We had a big disagreement over the weekend. On Friday night we hung out and played Call of Duty together. He said how he would love to reach Gold rank before his best friend got ranked. But we had to get off for the night. So he was hoping we would play ranked the next day.

The next day was a rough day, my mom and I got into a fight. Had sick kiddos all week. I’ve been pretty sick too. So his friend messaged me (while my bf was working) asking if I’d play some COD. We played ranked (that was what he chose) so we won a match of ranked. I got off. His friend saw me on later and he was officially ranked. My boyfriend had said he probably wouldn’t be able to link up with me until after my kids were asleep. I took it as he would be busy. So I figured he would message me when he wasn’t busy. His friend and I played for quite awhile never heard from him. So I messaged him I hope he sleeps well. (Figured he was tired from work 12 hour shifts all week). An hour later I get a response “I’m not sleeping.” I said oh okay. I hope you have a good night. A few hours later I get a message “you have the lowest social awareness I’ve probably ever seen in a person”. That he has to decide if he’s okay with it because I can’t change it. Social awareness is either something you have or you don’t. Or if it makes him too uncomfortable and needs to end things.

He was mad that I played ranked with his friend. That his friend got ranked before he got to gold. And that I hung out with his friend and didn’t message when my kids were asleep. The next few days were awkward to say the least he said things that hurt me. Only offered conditional apologies saying I’m sorry if it hurt you. I was waiting in limbo to see if we were over or if he could deal with it. So I felt uneasy and didn’t know what to say. We talked again about it the day before yesterday and he apologized for brining it up how he did. He asked me about my day and so on. We seemed better. Now the last two nights I haven’t heard from him for 6-8 hours at a time which was nothing like before (we’re long distance) so we usually talk constantly. It just feels like things are off and I brought it up to him, but he just plays it off like. I thought you were sleeping since you’re sick, I worked until this time. Then made dinner. Figured you were putting the kids to bed. Figured you fell asleep after. But he’s never been like that. He use to say he was busy or what he was doing real quick. Ask if I fell asleep, tell me goodnight if I didn’t respond.

AIO?