GOT PREGNANT ONE MONTH BEFORE MARRAIGE !!! (Clearing some stuff)

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I also want to add something important that many people don’t know. My friend has always lived in the shadow of her family it’s a typical conservative Haryanvi household and she never really had the space to make her own choices freely. Her fiancé, on the other hand, moved to Bangalore and built a life for himself independently, which made it relatively easier for him to step away from that kind of environment.

She lost her sister during childbirth, so pregnancy is not just an “adjustment” for her it’s a very real and personal fear. On top of that, she has a very frail body type and her RBC levels are already at an alarming low(tbh i dont understand medical stuff quite well, so dont quote me on anything medically). Even her regular periods are extremely difficult for her physically. Because of all this, continuing the pregnancy carries serious health risks.

Some people commented that if both partners are earning well, they can manage. But the reality is different. She has a very basic education and was teaching at a small village school, which she left before the wedding. She doesn’t currently have financial stability or a strong professional background. This isn’t just about money it’s about physical health, emotional readiness, and overall stability.

They’re not trying to escape responsibility. They’re trying to assess what is realistically safe and sustainable for her both medically and personally. They both acknowledge that they made their choices and have taken accountability for them. What’s done is done. You can call them immature or irresponsible, but they’re facing the consequences together.

Also, my last post was read and monitored by both my friend and her fiancé. They went through all the suggestions very seriously, and thank you all for the suggestions and for taking your time to help them out.

I do have an update, but I can’t share it without their permission. I’ll just say that things aren’t looking very good right now.