is there a place in findom for the average sub??

everyone's always so extreme around here. there are fat subs looking to be degraded, short subs seeking ridicule, domes mocking the brokies, while seeking whales.

it's so disheartening to read all these extreme depictions. i just feel like there's no place for me here, and it hurts. just a mature, 5'10 (i used to think i was one tenth of a foot shorter or something, but turns out i just don't understand the foot based length measurements) guy with an average build, (i wear size L clothing unless it's something like kappa, then i need to get XL), making average pay in an average job. the grey toyota camry of subs.

i don't know... i was just looking at my own reflection in the microwave door earlier this morning while waiting for my oatmeal and just thought that a dome probably wouldn't even notice me in a crowd. just a silent sub destined for silent sends.