My bf and i are transitioning to breakup

Hi guys, i just wanted to post this to see if anyone else has a similar situation or has went through one before.

Me and my bf, 22 F and 30M We dated for 2 years and 6 months Are transitioning into a breakup, we switched to casual recently because we both figured out that the relationship wont work out, we are perfectly healthy and in LDR. But the problem is that he isnt able to handle my disability anymore. (I have a complicated learning disability that impacts me and eveyone else.)

We decided to switch to casual and end it completely when we are less busy and after our last convention together. (We have a convention coming up in march) He wanted to do this with me because all of my other breakups were toxic and he wanted to make this my first healthy one.

I agreed because i like the idea of it, the feeling is a nice change for once. :) We both know that if we were to continue the relationship, things would end up getting toxic. He is a nice and sweet man and I wish nothing but the best for him in his future love life, either if im in it or not.

I will always love him in my heart, but I already accepted that I need to move on soon. Its going to hurt but its going to hurt less then the others did. Its all thanks to him, he healed something that he didnt break. 🥺❤️‍🩹

Whoever the next lucky girl will be, they will be blessed to have him... it just can't be me unfortunately...

thank you all for reading, I will be okay. Everything will be fine... I have already accepted that I am not the right woman for him...

Posted Feb 25, 2026, 5:50 AM UTC

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