Some people lack empathy for others and I personally find it disturbing

I don't know how many times I've been told to basically suck it up when I'm feeling down both in real life but also online at times. But it's also not just in situations involving me.

I don't intend to get into it very deeply but for example I've heard and seen people say victims of severe bullying and violent crime deserved what happened to them. I mean I guess everyone has moments of cruelty and ignorance but I don't understand how people can say stuff like that and feel like they're doing something right.

I think some people should work on being kinder. I'm not saying perfect but if someone is regularly intentionally cruel I really think that's something that should be worked on.