Am I having bad luck or many guys seem to have an avoidant attachment style?

hey! hope you've been well. I've been through therapy and since then I've noticed many guys I've met are either afraid of connection, have an avoidant attachment style, or seem intimidated by the word "date" or anything that implies commitment or exclusivity.

is it the case or am I having bad luck? haha :) if it is the first one, does anyone know why? I'm curious, it's not everyone but it's been a pattern that has caught my attention in a non-judgmental way ^^