What would it take to actually fix dating apps?

We all know the issues with the big dating apps, so I won’t rant. I’m more interested in what better solutions could look like — something closer to old-school OkCupid.

From my experience as an average guy(M26), the main problems:

1. Match → ghost → repeat.

Unlimited options + skewed ratios make matches disposable. There’s always “someone better” one swipe away.

Possible fixes:

• Hide photos until after you’ve matched and built some chemistry (text + voicenotes).
• Limit daily likes and cap active matches (1–3 max). To match someone new, you’d have to end an existing convo.
• Keep gender ratios balanced so one side isn’t overwhelmed.

2. Hard to find real compatibility.

Most apps optimise for engagement, not long-term fit.

Possible fix:

• Deep question packs (faith, values, money, lifestyle, family, politics).
• You answer for yourself and choose preferred answers in a partner.
• Show a compatibility % on profiles.

3. Low-effort prompts.

Looks/picture quality carry too much weight.

Possible fix:

• Mandatory voice prompts so you can judge personality as well.

Would you use something like this? What would you change or add?