My mother has zero interest in participating in my wedding planning journey. Need support. I feel crazy.

My mom has refused to go to my dress appointment. She has refused to meet my fiance's parents. She has also blatantly ignored my MOH's text messages about my bridal shower. I have asked my mom for an old rosary or anything I can wear/hold as my "something old".. she said "we'll see". She doesn't ask me ANY questions about the wedding. Or how anything is going. I'm just so frustrated and upset about this experience and how she's continuing to make herself the victim.

Her reasoning is: she planned her own wedding. So I can too...

She also never even said congratulations to me being engaged. And that was back in 2024.. she admitted that she thought me getting engaged was a "stab" at her.