47 [M4F] #NM Lonely Married M looking for Married F

I’m in a dead bedroom marriage. I’ve tried many times to talk about it/suggest therapy only for things to end up exactly where they were & just getting worse. Things are mainly fine except for the bedroom side of things. For that reason I’m not looking to change mine or anyone else’s situation. Seems like a fairly common issue people have. I’m hoping to find a woman perhaps in a similar situation as me that wants to fill in the gaps together & get back some of what we’re missing.

I’m 47 living in Santa Fe by way of Los Angeles & originally from Colorado. I’m Hispanic, HWP, laid back go with the flow creative type who also loves science. Ideally, I would like to meet someone who is looking for a FWB that has the same requirements for discretion as me. Someone close enough to take advantage of last minute opportunities that pop up in everyday life. I’m hoping to find a woman who isn’t looking for multiple affair partners & wants a more exclusive partner. Someone to get to know well & do things with whenever possible considering the situation, and also for many behind closed door entanglements we’re missing in our current relationships. If this sounds right up your alley, I’d love to hear from you & see if we can’t make something happen.