Im sick of being a burdon to my asexual partner.

Im hypersexual and my partner is ace, and i love them so much but its causing so much hurt in my chest. Lately we had a conversation and they said that "if i asked for a kiss they would say yes even if i didnt want it" because they are afraid of me leaving. They constantly act like im someone they need to appease and im worried its going to spiral into them one day feeling pressured into something they dont want simply out of fear of loosing me and that they think its something i need in a relationship. Sex isnt something i need i can fully live without it and i love them so much. I just hate being this way and feeling like im something that needs to be appeased or something.