My perception of reality (another try... For some reason mod pull it down)

(Not really sure why the mod bot pulled this post down. I'm going to try it again with just a couple of small edits... I mostly read, almost never post, so I must have gotten something wrong.)

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It's crazy. Living this DB life for so long (16+ years), I have begun to condition myself to think that HLFs don't exist in marriage.

Anymore, I struggle to remember that they can -- or at least used to in my experience -- enjoy sex, too. I mean, it's not like I was abnormal. Dating life was pretty average. Sometimes with success, sometimes not. (Probably just a result of social mores existing in my younger life--men expected to be the persuer and what not.) I just went after the prize like most guys did. That was before I got married.

But it's been so long since the last time wife initiated (or even bothered to respond to my attempts at it), that I've almost totally forgotten that women might actually enjoy sex, and might even seek it out.

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I think the mod bot thinks I'm trying to hook up with somebody on here, or soliciting. That's not the case at all. I'm just trying to be heard.