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Love & Relationships

Problem/Goal: been talking to this guy for 2 months now. Our first date was a week after our very first conversation. This is how the first date went:

Context:

didnt pick me up infront of my house, instead its abt 10 blocks away from my very home.

-first opinion shared once i got inside his car was how traffic it was in my area

-he invited me sa first date shempre, sinagot nya bill for the first meal, then nung mag d dessert na kami somewhere, sabi nya kkb na daw kasi wala na syang pera, so sabi ko sige.

-nung nasa park na kami, nag joke sya about just dropping me off sa hi way, kasi may 6pm appointment sya sa spa.

Id dnt took it as a joke sabi ko sige ok lang then sabi nya no d kita hahayaan na ganon, di naman ako redflag HAHAHA like its some type of stuff na deserve nya ng award

-anyways after ng park date namin, bumalik kami sacar nya and nag “cuddle kami” asin cuddle lang talaga ha walang eme. Pero sinabi nya sakin d ko alam if biro, “d mo ba nahahalata chinachansingan na kita?” Whoah. Eh naka tank top ako mainit kasi nung first date namin and DI KO EXPECT NA MAY CUDDLE NA MAGAGANAP.

- Habang nasa byahe kami pauwi, binrag nya na hindi daw nya ko i d drop sa hi way kasi yung situation nakita namin, traffic daming tao and delikado na. Again, like its some type of heroic thing na ihatid pauwi ang date mong babae.

Previous attempts: first date to. May second and third date pa. Gusto ko lang malaman if tama or normal lang ba yan sa mid twenties na college graduate at may desenteng trabaho naman. Versus sakin na studyante palang(college)

Posted Feb 26, 2026, 3:23 AM UTC

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