Information on The Sweet Spot Mesa - Lifestyle club from a member
I am posting on behalf of all couples that want to test the waters of the Lifestyle/Swinging, as accurate information is often difficult to find (with MOD permission). As I firmly believe that the more people that find the Lifestyle the better.
The Sweet Spot Mesa is a couple focused private membership club that has space for couples to meet, dance, drink and play in a low pressure atmosphere. We generally describe the space as a mix between a bar and nightclub that you can dress up as sexy as you want and flirt with other couples and there are rooms to have sex in when you are ready and willing. There is a pool table, a dance floor with black lights that has a decent play list with a live DJ on Saturday nights or with music to match the nights theme (usually on Saturdays) . There are a bunch of couches and place to sit and chat with couples that you want to get to know. There are 10 play rooms, 2 of which are group rooms that stay open and 1 room that can be reserved for the night for a fee (ask the front people). All of the other rooms can either be closed and locked; or door open with signs or ropes not to come in but you can watch; or left open, and people may come in and possibly ask to participate. The rule being, sex only in play rooms. The space is for couples and unicorns (single women enter free on Fridays btw) for 99% of the people there, No single males allowed. A couple is welcome to bring a third male with them, but they MUST stay with that couple, no wondering around alone.
My wife and I found Sweet Spot and it helped spring board us into the lifestyle that we love so much. If you Google "The Sweet Spot Mesa" and it should be the first link to get info for a free tour and other information. I would also be happy to answer general questions if they are resonable, but again I am a member not staff. I hope to see you all soon at The Sweet Spot!
Posted Feb 26, 2026, 3:31 AM UTC