My (M36) fiancé (F32) is bald and he hates taking photos. Our wedding date is slated for 10/17/27 and I found a photographer I really like. Fiancé is now saying he doesn’t want photos taken. Any feedback or suggestions?

My (M33) fiance (F30) is bald and he hates taking photos. If he is photographed, he prefers to wear a hat of some sort.

Our wedding date is slated for 10/17/27 and I found a photographer I want to book. Fiancé is now saying he doesn’t want photos taken.

I understand that being bald is upsetting for him, but I’m at a loss. This is supposed to be a happy day for both of us and I’d love to look back on these photos years from now.

I’ve already compromised on having a smaller wedding to make him more comfortable. Any feedback or suggestions?

I’ve considered discussing with the photographer and asking if she can take purposeful shots to angle the top of his head out of the photos, but I’m not sure if that will look good.

Does anyone have any experience with a similar situation? I really don’t want him to feel self conscious on our wedding day.