I don't feel good from penetrating people at all and can't cum?

Title, I am a proud penis owner and penetration and oral just don't feel very good for me? I don't know what to do I've had sex half a dozen times and half the time I can't cum or have had to sit and finish myself off, is this normal? Nothing I google focuses on penis owners it's always about how it isn't meant to feel good for the vagina owner? ​