I got invited to both the Velvet Shade and The Masked Trope Sects....What Do I do????

I know the Velvet Shade doesn't have any strict rules to follow,
while The Masked Trope has many - No marriage, No signs of affection, and so forth.

Please, I'm not sure what to choose, and I have less then 5hrs to choose one of them.

Please let me know your thoughts and opinions, I'm kinda leaning more to velvet shades as I want to flirt with other guy npc's for my male character lol, but at the same time I like the idea of the Mask Trope and the rules a little bit. It's like becoming the ultimate Idol.

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