32[M4A]#Online, UK, looking for a dominant to fall for

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Hi! Pleased to meet you!

For the longest time I considered myself purely Dominant, but I've recently been doing some soul-searching and have come to the conclusion that I'm both open to and need something a little more than can be found on one side of the collar. BDSM is a passion of mine, and I hope that there's a strong-willed, teasing and caring Dominant out there who's looking to build a personal connection as well as a kinky one.

As for vanilla me, I'm a huge nerd -- literally; I'm 6'5". Aside from reaching things off tall shelves, I love gaming - PC gamer into strategy games and some shooters; books - Bernard Cornwell is amazing; tabletop RPGs like DnD and have spent years making my own world! And I also enjoy modelling too.

Kinkswise, I enjoy the below:

* Hypnosis

* Hard bondage

* Sensory Deprivation

* Tease and Denial

* Chastity

* Impact play

* Humiliation and degredation

* CNC

* Domestic Service

* Protocols

* Psychological play

I'm also an experienced hypnotist, and I've been eager to try hypnosis as an act of service, as a way of helping Dominants experience the joy of trance. Hit me up if this is something you might enjoy!

Mostly, though, what I'm looking for is an \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*actual person\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*, not a fetish dispenser -- someone I can get to know in a relationship over time, as well as in an M/s sense. Safe, sane and consensual interactions with strong communication are an absolute must, and I always hope to be as honest as I can be with my desires and concerns. Getting to know people fully is 90% of the fun of kink, and I like a strong basis of getting to know someone before we jump to the physical.

I pride myself on being kind, bubbly and fun in my daily life, and after a couple of missteps I'm working on bettering myself for my own sake, as well as for the sake of any Dominant I might play with. Self-reflection is important to me, and I love swimming and hikes and generally trying to be the best version of myself. (Just... you know. Not in a lame YouTube-influencer-who-only-drinks-ice-water-and-never-smiles way. I hope.) It took me a little while to realise that I actually quite like myself, and I plan to make the most of that 🙂

I hope something in this caught your eye -- and if it did, I hope you'll drop me a message.

Posted Feb 26, 2026, 7:51 AM UTC

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