How was this date experience?
Went on a date tonight. Total messages beforehand exchanged 10-15.
We were supposed to go ice skating but the lane was closed so we ended up just going for a walk (sober).
It was really only a lot of practical questions ("what do you do?", "where do you live? Do you have siblings?" "What are your hobby's?" etc). We did have a few laughing moments. Convo's wasnt allways super smooth and sometimes you could feel somebody had to ask a new question or the it was gonna get akward if the silence was too long. Not that it ever did to that point (a litte close sometimes) and i felt really comfortable around her. But after a 70 min walk we reached the train station i think there was an unspoken agreement that "okay this is enough for today". We hugged goodbye and she was like "this has been cosy". Mostly in a polite way.
So idk if this is normal. Havent been dating a lot, and dont know how my expectations is too high. I think it went ok. How would you say this sound? And what are some parametres you use to determine whether you want a 2nd date?
My intuation? She seems nice but im not overwhelmed. I guess a secund date would be ok?
Posted Feb 26, 2026, 7:56 AM UTC