Relationship

[37m] [27F]

. Started dating in summer. First trip September- perfect trip. Everything seemed to be going perfectly. I invited him to move in during trip so he did after we got back. In December he told me he was in a visa marriage, completely stunted me. I was heart broken and

bewildered. I truly had no idea considering he is 10 years older than me and we had been talking about “finally finding the completing piece” kids marriage EVERYTHING. Stunned, I told him he needed to get lawyer and get things done if he wanted to do the things w me as he claimed. He did, I spoke with lawyer, divorce has now barely started because of hiring lawyer (before he said “I don’t want to hire a lawyer I can do it all myself it just takes time”) now it is almost March and the divorce has barely started, only because of the lawyer I had him hire, and he’s now saying to me he wants to do the rest without one. I know for a fact it will only be issue after issue if he doesn’t hire one. Wtf do I do (ps went on another trip and was amazing which is why I am left here)