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n3aak

Finally feel like I'm living it!

Happy!

Everything feels like it's finally all coming together. After years of mostly long distance relationships (with people I love deeply but get to I see occasionally if I'm lucky) my poly life is finally coming together.

I've been in a long term relationship with my NP for 12 years. We've been poly since day 1. But just a couple of weeks ago my friend with benefits asked me to date him seriously and then last week I started seeing a new person. We had a great second date tonight. The new guy has a NP who has another boyfriend.

Is this poly joy?

For the record, I'm a mostly gay cis man, as is the long term FWB returned boyfriend. My NP is a bisexual trans woman though she's not seeing anyone else ATM (by choice) and the new guy is pansexual and has female NP and a couple kids from an ex-wife.

It's just... Bliss!

Posted Feb 26, 2026, 7:59 AM UTC

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