Finally feel like I'm living it!
Everything feels like it's finally all coming together. After years of mostly long distance relationships (with people I love deeply but get to I see occasionally if I'm lucky) my poly life is finally coming together.
I've been in a long term relationship with my NP for 12 years. We've been poly since day 1. But just a couple of weeks ago my friend with benefits asked me to date him seriously and then last week I started seeing a new person. We had a great second date tonight. The new guy has a NP who has another boyfriend.
Is this poly joy?
For the record, I'm a mostly gay cis man, as is the long term FWB returned boyfriend. My NP is a bisexual trans woman though she's not seeing anyone else ATM (by choice) and the new guy is pansexual and has female NP and a couple kids from an ex-wife.
It's just... Bliss!
Posted Feb 26, 2026, 7:59 AM UTC