Do you find it hard to move on from unresolved situation in your eyes?

Hi Caps!

Basically the question above..

Little story why I'm asking...

I have this Capricorn guy still rolling in my mind -

my ex classmate that's still obsessive towards me, it's been 7 years since I last time saw him, he wanted to try something while in school, but I was in relationship and nothing ever happened. He just kissed my cheek once and that's it, whenever he wanted to speak he never did. Then I moved away from my home, I was still in relationship, I didn't ever go to graduation, I just moved away, cut all people I knew and disappeared (scorpio for you), anyways, he started stalking my socials after some time I have moved away, then when I broke up with my ex he started texting me, when he's drunk only, then won't text again for some time and on and on, always drunk. Told his friends I'm a bitch that I left him and etc, but when I offered to meet he always ditched me, then he started calling me on videos chatting shit like he feels lonely, no one needs or wants him and my husband (him) is waiting for me to come back, he will buy a house and etc. lol. At this point I gave up, I liked him a lot, but eventually with this behaviour he pushed me away, he called only when drunk and "vulnerable", I stopped picking his calls, muted him, he blocked me, then the next weekend when drunk unblocked me and called like 16 times, I'm genuinely like what do you want - so I said, please if you don't have anything to say sober, stop calling me when you're drunk, live a life, have a hobby, find a girlfriend, I don't know anything, why on earth do you need me? Well he blocked me so he haven't seen it yet, but the pattern is, that I need to wait for weekend until he's drunk again lol.

I do not think it's love, I think it's unhealthy, unevolved Cap, that didn't finish business on his own terms, I just left him, we didn't share a kiss or anything (one time after party I was walking him home, we hugged then after a few years he said he should've kissed me, but he was too pussy to do that, so there's that), opinion?

I can't put it as relationship flair, it's not a relationship!!

Turns out I have to.