Guys with good personalities

For the guys with good personalities that you personally think you could treat a woman right, have you often been chosen for those personality traits? Or have most of the woman youve attracted just looking for a piece of your meat? I feel like most of my life alot of girls ive dated have truly just been trying to see me as sexual half the time even if their not saying it almost like theyre playing the long game. Is it just me or has it happened to you guys aswell?