25 [M4A] #Germany – sub-leaning switch (still) hoping for a relationship with Kink
After my last post was more successful than expected (1 person messaged me), but not resulting in anything, I want to try again. Maybe changing the style will improve the results (or not).
About me:
- 25 years old
- Living in NRW, Germany
- 197cm tall (google says 6’6’’) and a slight stomach
- Work in IT
- Cannot host but have my own car
- Generally nerdy hobbies
- Started collecting Warhammer minis
- Former DnD GM
- Playing video games (mostly soulslike, roguelike and TCG-Games, but started Overwatch recently)
- Reading Manga/Manwha and watching anime
- Going for short hikes (ca 1-1.5h)
- Going to the cinema
- Never been in a relationship
- Preferably looking for IRL. May be open for online at first.
NSFW/Kinks:
- Sub-leaning switch (need to be comfortable with you to try to Dom, if you want)
- Bondage (have done some self-bondage, would like to be tied up by someone else (or tie someone up). Could end there and we just vibe or more)
- Pain Play (clothespins, tens-unit and tiger balm. Didn't try impact play so far because hitting myself feels weird)
- Semi-public (tasks / play(-sessions) outside, as long as it’s not visible/audible for others)
- Other (open to try anything at least once)
Limits:
- Hard Limits (currently a no):
- Illegal
- Nasty (scat, vomit, licorice)
- (semi-)permanent (scars, piercings, marking, ...)
- Involving others (unless it’s their job)
- Soft Limits (meaning I have conditions for them but would be fine)
- Anal
- Feminization
- Cnc
- ...
What I exactly look for:
- A long term romantic relationship including Kink
- A long term kink relationship
- Kinky dates that my result in longer play
- (maybe) a full time kink relationship
What I would like in your message:
- ASL
- A name I should use for you
- (some of) your kinks/Limits
- What you’re looking for
- (at least 1) question/s i need to answer
I hope for some chat requests after this post, but wish everyone reading this an enjoyable da
Posted Feb 26, 2026, 8:02 AM UTC · locked