25 [M4A] #Germany – sub-leaning switch (still) hoping for a relationship with Kink

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After my last post was more successful than expected (1 person messaged me), but not resulting in anything, I want to try again. Maybe changing the style will improve the results (or not).

About me:

- 25 years old

- Living in NRW, Germany

- 197cm tall (google says 6’6’’) and a slight stomach

- Work in IT

- Cannot host but have my own car

- Generally nerdy hobbies

- Started collecting Warhammer minis

- Former DnD GM

- Playing video games (mostly soulslike, roguelike and TCG-Games, but started Overwatch recently)

- Reading Manga/Manwha and watching anime

- Going for short hikes (ca 1-1.5h)

- Going to the cinema

- Never been in a relationship

- Preferably looking for IRL. May be open for online at first.

NSFW/Kinks:

- Sub-leaning switch (need to be comfortable with you to try to Dom, if you want)

- Bondage (have done some self-bondage, would like to be tied up by someone else (or tie someone up). Could end there and we just vibe or more)

- Pain Play (clothespins, tens-unit and tiger balm. Didn't try impact play so far because hitting myself feels weird)

- Semi-public (tasks / play(-sessions) outside, as long as it’s not visible/audible for others)

- Other (open to try anything at least once)

Limits:

- Hard Limits (currently a no):

- Illegal

- Nasty (scat, vomit, licorice)

- (semi-)permanent (scars, piercings, marking, ...)

- Involving others (unless it’s their job)

- Soft Limits (meaning I have conditions for them but would be fine)

- Anal

- Feminization

- Cnc

- ...

What I exactly look for:

- A long term romantic relationship including Kink

- A long term kink relationship

- Kinky dates that my result in longer play

- (maybe) a full time kink relationship

What I would like in your message:

- ASL

- A name I should use for you

- (some of) your kinks/Limits

- What you’re looking for

- (at least 1) question/s i need to answer

I hope for some chat requests after this post, but wish everyone reading this an enjoyable da

Posted Feb 26, 2026, 8:02 AM UTC · locked

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