Understanding dating game psychology.

27 M, have bot used dating apps earlier. Had two emotional relations in past, now both closed. So now since a year gauging what's going around. Reading, understanding about different platforms like apps, social meetups, arrange marriage channels etc. feeling little weird how things have change towards worse, like on dating apps people are not behaving like they are dealing with people rather they just treat it like a profile. it feels like now dating and matching with partner is also like a rat race. need some opinions and thoughts over it