Leo man looking for advice lol

Hey! I’m a guy Leo sun Leo rising and Libra moon really interested in a Gemini woman.

At first everything was going perfect but it did feel like she was love bombing me which unfortunately seems perfect for me lol.

We’ve been talking for about 3 months but in the very beginning we both barely messaged each other until a little more in when we recognized feelings for eachother.

There was an incident in which her ex of 10 years pulled up on her and I at her job trying to fight me, he also went through my car and from what I know has a concealed carry.

He kept trying to instigate me until I left.

I haven’t allowed myself to like anyone in a few years now for personal reasons but she felt so perfect.

After the incident she did try to make me feel better and ask if I was mad but she also said she understands if I didn’t want to be with her. I do I just feel confused.

I ended up getting drunk a few days and overly texting her i know I overwhelmed her and I hate it.

She hasn’t responded in over a week now but still shows her location, she also did say she prefers phone calls but I just get scared it there’s something I don’t wanna see when she answers.

Sorry for it all but I just want to know if from a Geminis perspective did I scare her away or do I give her more room?

Tl:dr this Gemini girl I’ve been talking to hasn’t responded for a while but still shares her location.