I Got Dumped 3 Weeks Ago - Why Do I Feel Guilty Even Thinking About Dating?
I’m three weeks after a breakup - my gf dumped me. We were together for three years, but things had been getting worse for a few months, so you could say the feelings were slowly fading.
The first few days after the breakup were terrible. I couldn’t pull myself together, so I went to see a psychologist. After a few sessions, I realized that the breakup might actually be a good thing, because in the long run we probably weren’t right for each other.
My friends have been talking about Tinder, and I have this strange feeling that I’d like to download it too. But as soon as I think about it, I feel guilty — like I shouldn’t be doing that, like it’s only been three weeks, and how can I even be thinking about something like that already?
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I really need some advice!!!
Posted Feb 26, 2026, 1:50 PM UTC