Where’s the line between “AI help” and “inauthentic” in dating texts?

I’ve been thinking about something weird lately.

AI has quietly become part of people’s daily communication, in emails, job applications, LinkedIn posts, social in general and nobody really blinks anymore.

But dating feels different.

If someone uses AI to:

• rewrite a message to sound clearer
• suggest a better opener
• make something less awkward

is that fundamentally different from asking a friend what should I say or does it cross a line when the AI starts shaping tone, humor, personality?

Not only bots running the whole conversation, more like:

you draft something and AI gives options, you edit it.

Where do you personally draw the line?

At what point does editing help become this isn’t really you?

I tested one of those AI texting assistant apps (SmoothSpeak) out of curiosity, mostly when I was stuck on openers.

Mi ha fatto rendere conto che molte volte noi ci blocchiamo dal mandare un messaggio solo per paura, ma a leggero in modo razionale, ha senso e forse aiuta la self confidence.

Curious how people here see this evolving.

Will slightly imperfect texts become a trust signal in the AI era?