Wht is this behaviour yrr

So I was talking to this frnd of mine who is in 12th standard and I'm a dropper and obv messed up my drop year and all that bhindi rona and loneliness , prnts ke taunt, overthinking and all a dropper faces. And I was overthinking and he called me and we were talking and I just told him like how life isn't feeling right nowadays . I cannot figure out wht to do next. But becuz he asked so I told him. and he replies that... Koi bat ni yrr . 2 mahine baad mere sath bhi yhi hoga. M bhi akela ho jaunga . ghr wale sunaenge.
and this was the 2-3 time he said this to me. I was like WTF!!!!
Bhai konsa tere bhi dukhi ho jane se mera dukh kam ho jaega . and is this any kind of competition jisme tujhe mere se jade krna h. Being competitive in my dukh ? and I said itna bura lgra to pdhle .

and bhai I'm tired of this behaviour . How can someone act like thiss. I seriously hate this kind of stuff. Ek to I was not going to shre things and fir insist kro and fir bolo tm bhi aise hone wale ho. to jab pta h hone wala hi h to chnge kr lo use. Huhhh

idk wht is this behaviour called ? Any term for this ???