40 [M4F] #UK | #Online - Seeking out a masochist who thrives on degradation and humiliation…

Let’s skip the pleasantries shall we? I’m Al. Forty. Southeast England.

I’m a six foot beast of a man. Burly, bearded and rugged. I look exactly like the type of man who can, and will, ruin you.

Day to day, I am a geeky, easygoing guy - a facade I put up to maintain societal acceptance and keep my true nature well hidden. With the right person I can let that mask slip and reveal the consummate sadist lurking underneath. A sinister, perverse deviant refined by over twenty years of dominance and power.

My satisfaction comes from degradation, dehumanisation, total control and extreme kinks but my real talent lies in digging into your subconscious to uncover the filth you desperately crave but are either, too afraid to admit to yourself, or, didn’t know you needed.

I listen and notice patterns. I remember contradictions and I pick up on what you hide behind your little jokes and half truths. I find the parts of you that feel dirty, shameful, wrong or dangerous and I make you face them. Slowly and patiently until you stop resisting and start to crave it.

For me, a real dynamic isn’t just scenes and dirty talk. It’s trust so deep it’s reckless and letting someone into your fears, your weaknesses, your need for approval and your desire to be owned. If you can’t think, articulate, and challenge me then you’re just background noise.

I want a woman who has always felt that being “normal" was a lie. Someone who is tired of pretending and is ready to be honest about her darker and more depraved kinks.

I understand life exists. Work, responsibilities and stress. I’m not chasing a fantasy. I build things that can survive the mundanity of life and won’t switch off when it’s inconvenient.

When I invest in someone, I’m relentless. I pay attention and I make you a permanent fixture in my thoughts. In return, I expect loyalty, emotional exposure, attachment and priority. I don’t do casual and I don’t do disposable.

I’m not concerned with your appearance or relationship status and I expect the same respect in return. This isn't about your physical appearance but more about what's inside your head. I care about your psychology and I want someone who understands that true submission isn’t roleplay. It’s letting yourself be altered and trusting someone enough to let them take pieces of you and not give them back.

If this made your stomach knot and your cunt twinge with excitement then you might be worth my time. 

Introduce yourself properly.

Tell me what you’re ashamed of wanting.

Tell me what you’re afraid I’ll do to you.

Be honest.