She made someone’s death about her

no one can convince me at this point that my mom is a well intended person NO ONE because of one aubwjct: death. I will spare you all some of her other comments regarding the deaths of people who she had some sort of relation to and will instead focus on this one.

it was the day before I moved out, o was sitting there innocently eating some food as most humans do and my mother starts telling me about how my once friend (no longer my friend thanks to my mother) was going to see her fiancés family because his brother accidentally shot homself while talking on the phone with said fiance. now, this is a terrible tragic story right? most people would realize this because it’s bad right? not her, she had to make it alllllll about her. how “she didn’t want to start crying again” how she called my ”friend” to talk for like half an hour. she acted like she was a hero in this situation for talking to my friend who she isn’t that close to or anything… yeah so of course there was more but that’s all o can stand to think about right now.

this is why when my mom says she’s thinking about me or hopes I’m doing well, I know she doesn’t care. if you can’t stop thinking about yourself for someone who just experienced a horrendous amount of grief, I know your not gonna think about me for no reason at all.