Okay so my only sibling (brother M33) has been suffering from alcoholism and me, my Mom and dad went to go visit him today. It’s been very hard and stressful for our family of 4 these past couple of days.. Afterwards I called my boyfriend and I was telling him everything  that happened today. (He hasn’t made time to listen to me the past 3 days we’ve been with my brother) and I told him that my brother hasn’t gotten over or processed the divorced between our mom and dad, because that’s what my brother was verbally saying. That what happened between their relationship affected him! It happened when we were around 12-15 (preteen age) and I used to term “boys” with my boyfriend .. because thats what you are at 12-15., the reason I specified boys is because I do think they’re emotionally immature and can’t grasp the concept that a marriage could end under bigger grounds other than the love just being gone. For example you have husbands all the time saying “the divorce came out of no where” when the wife has been trying to communicate her needs all this time and has just slowly given up after not being listen to for so long… or maybe the love ended after they had kids…

Either way He went on this huge curse mode on me, which I hate, I always tell him don’t curse at me, you can express yourself without cursing at me. . He called me a “lesbo” bc I’ve expressed to him that I’m bisexual in the past and he doesn’t understand that I can like both he used “lesbian” to insult me pretty much…. Was I rude? Was he rude? Am I overreacting ? 

Especially with all the stress I’m going through with my brother right now, we’re afraid he might end himself… and my boyfriend is deciding to take this “comment” super personal

Bf called me a “lesbo” to insult me ..